Group therapy is a form of counseling where a small group of people meet regularly to discuss, interact, and explore problems with each other and the group leader. Group therapy seeks to give clients a safe and comfortable place where they can work out problems and emotional issues. Members gain insight into their own thoughts and behavior, and offer suggestions and support to others.

In addition, people who have a difficult time with interpersonal relationships can benefit from the social interactions that are a basic part of the group therapy experience.

Most groups are composed of clients of differing ages, backgrounds and experiences. This helps to provide additional perspectives.

People who participate in counseling groups benefit in many ways. Groups are uniquely suited to help clients:

• give and receive support 
• gain understanding of problems and explore possible solutions
• practice interpersonal skills in a safe group setting
• learn more about how you come across to others
• increase observation and feedback skills
• enhance problem-solving skills
• improve emotional expressiveness
• decrease social isolation
• develop good communication skills

Most personal problems are interpersonal in nature. Very often they stem from our relationships or from our personal patterns of relating. Group therapy offers the rare opportunity to explore and understand how you relate to others and get specific feedback on how others react to you.

For many clients, groups can be more effective and produce quicker results than individual counseling. The lessons group members learn from each other and the chance to work through problems with other people who share similar concerns are what make groups special. Only in group therapy can you directly work on how you relate to others. The group environment of trust and safety can help you build the skills you need to create the same kind of trust and safety in your "real life" - at home and at work; with friends, family, and intimate partners.
The group experience can help you learn about your style of relating, your ability to be close, and your personal effectiveness in relationships, and gives you the unique chance to see how others struggle with these concerns. It also offers the opportunity to explore a broad range of personal concerns.

Generally groups meet weekly for 2.5 hours. Each group is scheduled for a particular day of the week and time of the day that is set for the duration of the group. Please see my schedule for more details.

Group fees are $35 per week.

If you are seeing a therapist, ask about joining a group. You can discuss the various group options with your therapist. Most therapy groups require potential members to have a pre-group session with the group leader(s) in order to see if a specific group is the right one for you. I require a pre-group meeting.

If you are not currently seeing a therapist, call the office (972-475-1500) and let the receptionist know that you would like to talk with me about the possibility of joining a group.

Currently I have an Adult Abuse Survivors group. As needs arise, other groups may be offered.

In addition to therapeutic groups, I offer clinical meditation / stress reduction groups. These are 8-week groups and are offered 4 times per year.

• Attend regularly. In joining the group, you have made a commitment to the other group members as well as to yourself.
• Make the group part of your life. Don't think of group as something that happens once a week and then forget about it in between. Between group sessions, think about what happened in group and about how you felt during and after group, and try to figure out why you had those feelings.
• Take responsibility for your counseling and your group. It's your group, so if it is not moving in the direction you want, say so.
• Participate actively. You will make more progress if you get actively involved in the group discussions.
• Experiment with new forms of behavior. Until you begin to act differently, you won't change.
• Take some emotional risks in group. It is structured to be safe and supportive.
• Be as honest and open as you are able in group. It allows other group members to get to know who you really are.
• Speak in the first person. This makes what you say much more personal and powerful.
• Accept responsibility for your own experience and allow other to be responsible for theirs. Don't foster dependency by assuming responsibility for others in the group.
• Learn to listen to others attentively. If you are formulating your response while someone else is speaking, you are not really hearing what is being said.
• Learn to differentiate between thoughts and feelings ... when you say "I feel that ...", or "I feel like ...", you are moving away from expressing feelings to expressing thoughts. Read my 'Healthy Relationships' and 'Feelings' brochures for more information on effective communication.
• Speak directly to individuals in the group rather than about them to others.
• Be honest and direct with your feelings in group in the present moment, especially your feelings toward other group members and the therapists.
• Be spontaneous. Often we wait our turn to speak, try to be polite, or think about what we want to say for so long that the moment to say it has passed.
• Be specific and direct with your feedback.
• Share both positive and negative.
• Don't give advice and suggestions.
• Don't try to solve other member's problems for them.
• Don't blame or judge others.
• Be respectful, even when you don't agree with a person's position or behavior.
• Phrase your feedback so it is about your experience of the other person, and not a judgment of how they are.
• Ask for feedback when you need it ... Seek clarification and avoid becoming defensive or making excuses.

The group sessions are confidential. The identity of the members of the group, and what they say in group is not to be talked about with anyone outside the group at any time. It is up to each group member to maintain this confidentiality.

Attend regularly and punctually. If you are going to miss a session or be late, please let one of the leaders of the group know.

Mutual respect is essential to maintaining the safety of the group. It is okay to disagree with others. It is not okay to treat other members disrespectfully.

Having a feeling and acting on it are two different actions. Acting out your feelings in group is not acceptable, whether you act them out upon yourself or on another member. The way we most respect ourselves and others is by experiencing our feelings and then talking about them.

It is your responsibility to talk about your reasons for being in the group as honestly as you are able.

If you decide to leave group, because you have met your goals for treatment or because it isn't the most appropriate treatment method for you, we ask that you come to the group and say good-bye.

Groups are private and confidential; that is, what members disclose in sessions is not shared outside of the group. The meaning and importance of confidentiality are reviewed with group members at the first meeting and every time a new member joins the group.

That's one of the common misunderstandings about group therapy:

"Group therapy will take longer than individual therapy, because I will have to share the time with others."

Group therapy can be more efficient than individual therapy for two reasons. First, you can benefit from the group even during sessions when you say little by listening carefully to others. You will find that you have much in common with other group members, and as they work on a concern, you can learn more about yourself. Second, group members will often bring up issues that strike a chord with you, but which you might not have been aware of or brought up yourself.

"I will be forced to tell all of my deepest thoughts, feelings and secrets to the group."

No one will force you to do anything in group counseling. You control what, how much, and when you share with the group. You do not have to share what you are not ready to disclose. You can be helped by listening to others and thinking about how what they are saying might apply to you. When you feel safe enough to share what is troubling you, a group will likely be very helpful and affirming.

"I have so much trouble talking to people, I'll never be able to share in a group."

Most people are anxious about being able to talk in group. Almost without exception, within a few sessions people find that they do begin to talk in the group. Group members remember what it is like to be new to the group, so you will get a lot of support for beginning to talk in the group.